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How can we know anything about anything


To try to explain truth to him who loves it not is but to give him more plentiful material for misinterpretation. George Macdonald

Do we have to make a choice between science and the Bible?

NO!

That is NOT where the problem is, but that is what everyone seems to want to talk about.

Take science as an example. How can we know anything about the created material world around us?

How can we know anything from what we can see using natural sciences?

We all see the same things in the material world, but we don't come to the same answers.

Why is that?

How can we know anything about the Bible and what it teaches? Every person believes different things about the Bible and how it should be read.

Why is that?

Same scientific facts. Different answers.

Same Bible. Different answers.

Why is that?

The true question is this: How do we come to our answers that we get from what we can see through science or what we can read in the Bible?

How do we think about what we see using science or what we read in the Bible?

How do we analyze what we have seen and read?

How do we interpret what we have seen and read?

We use logic, but logic always has a foundation. Jesus talked about building on the Rock. That Rock is Jesus Christ. He is the true foundation. There are also the false foundations of the ungodly.

An example might help.

Question: Why do you believe in evolution?

Answer: Because my science teacher told me that evolution is scientific fact.

Question: Why do you believe your science teacher?

Answer: because he agrees with the textbook he assigned us to read.

Now, we have asked, "Why?" twice.

If we continued to ask, "Why?" we would come down to the foundation of this person's thoughts.

When we get down to the foundations, there are no more questions that can be answered. So where to the foundations come from?

There are three possibilities.

  1. things that we make up, pulled from the air
  2. demonic lies
  3. divine revelation

Question: Why do you believe in creation?

Answer: Because God revealed this to me. He spoke to me through the Bible and gave me His faith so that I could believe Him.

See how quickly we got to the foundation. This is a belief that has a foundation that is solid and that cannot be moved.

In reality, the things that we make up, that are pulled from the air, are actually from demons and all the lies of demons spring from the prince of demons, Satan. So these are one and the same.

Divine revelation comes from the Almighty, Creator, God, Jesus Christ. So there are only two choices, but how do we know there are only two choices? Because God has revealed this truth to us.

The question then is how do we tell the difference between the revelation that comes from God and the lies of Satan?

The answer is that everyone who sincerely wants to do the will of God will know.

Jesus said, "If you really want to obey God, you will know if what I teach comes from God or from me"

The rejection of the revelation that comes from God is not an intellectual problem. It is a moral problem.

Jesus said, "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened to you: For everyone who asks receives; and he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks it shall be opened." *

Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to those who ask him? Matthew 7:7-11 *

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. You can set the truth before someone, but you can't make anyone believe those things that they don't want to submit to. They have to want to obey God.

How frequently it is brought to our attention that nothing good can be done if the will is wrong! Reason alone fails to justify itself. Richard M. Weaver

Jesus said, "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free" (John 8:32)

"If we are not prepared to buy the truth at the cost of our own humbling we shall not receive it"

Lies appear to have no price upon them. They seem cheap and they abound everywhere. But for the truth there is always an obvious price to pay.

"[God] has set a day when He will judge all the world's people with fairness. And He has chosen the man Jesus to do the judging for Him. God has given proof of this to all of us by raising Jesus from death" (Acts 17:31).

"There is a judge for the one who rejects Me [Jesus] and does not accept My words; that very word which I spoke will condemn him at the last day" (John 12:48)

That also stands for every person who speaks the utterances of Jesus. When we hear them, we hear Jesus Christ, and we either accept or reject. Every person who follows Jesus Christ is commanded to only speak His utterances and not their own.

"When we love others, we know that we belong to the truth, and we feel at ease in the presence of God" (1 John 3:19)

Ravi Zacharias did two open forums in a university. On the second night, one man told him that he had brought two Atheists in the night before who said that the arguments presented were so strong that they could not contend with them, but they were going to remain Atheists because that is what they prefer to be true.

In another case of just listening to an unbeliever and drawing out his reasoning, the unbeliever finally came to his foundations.

They turned out to be assumptions that were pulled from the air. When asked why he believed his basic assumption, the unbeliever looked startled and blurted out, "I guess I'm making the whole thing up." It was quite a revelation to him since he hadn't even known that he had any assumptions. However, he decided to remain an Atheist because he didn't want God to rule over him.

Question:

What does the Bible say about marrying a non-Christian?

Answer:

Problems arise when a Christian marries an unbeliever.  Marriage makes two people become one on the level of body.   
 
Christians have been changed in their spirits and in their souls.  The soul is another word for heart or mind.  All people have three parts, spirit, mind, and body.  The spirit of the Christian has been joined to the Holy Spirit.  Now, if the Christian joins his or her body to the body of someone who has a different spirit than the Holy Spirit, that is a conflict automatically.  Before a Christian comes to believe, he or she is in bondage to Satan.  The unbelievers are dead to God in spirit, mind, and body.  When they receive Jesus, they become alive in their spirit and somewhat in their minds.  From that day on, they are fighting with Satan for the mind.  They are directing their mind to the Holy Spirit by acknowledging God.  They turn their attention to God.  God is Love, so they are turning their attention toward the only real Love that there is.  
 
This is why the Bible says, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers." 2 Corinthians 6:14  A yoke is a big wooden thing that is put across two oxes so that they can pull a plow together.  When two people get married, they have a shared burden and they have to pull together.  When they disagree at the core of their being, in their spirits, they cannot pull together.  One or the other has to concede.  
 
The Bible goes on to say that one is in righteousness (the righteousness of Jesus) and the other is in wickedness (because they have not come to Jesus).  It says that one is in the light and the other is in darkness.  What does righteousness and wickedness have in common what unity can light have with darkness?  The answer is, None. There can be no unity.  They can fake it, but that's about it.  
 
This lack of unity is so bad that the Bible says that if the unbeliever wants to leave the marriage, let them go.  1 Corinthians 7:15
 
 
The Bible goes on to say, What agreement does Christ have with the evil one?   Unbelievers are slaves to the evil one.  They can't help it unless they come to Christ.   
 
Then the Bible asks "What do the believer and the unbeliever have in common?  What agreement does the temple of God (which you are) have with idols.  Can the temple of God bring in false gods?"  
 
Then, it says that Christians are the temple of the Living God and He will dwell in them and walk in them and He will be their God and they shall be His people.  
 
For this reason, it says, that Christians must come out from among unbeliever and be separate.  God says, "Don't touch the unclean thing."  
 
God is very strong on this point because He wants you to be happy.  He doesn't want to see you always sad for years or to have a marriage that breaks up with pain for you and the children.  
 
Now, none of this means that you cannot witness to unbelievers, but you can never have unity with them until they come to Christ in a real way.  You can love them.  God tells us to love every person.  You are showing your love for them as you witness to them.




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